PinnedThe Beginning of Opening Up — From Monogamy to Non MonogamyAbout two years ago, after almost 20 years of marriage, I wrote my first online dating profile.Sep 30, 202114Sep 30, 202114
The Temptation of Stealing a Gem of a Man from a Married WomanI once knew a man who was the full package on a dating app. Educated, financially secure, homeowner with a vacation property, great job…Jan 3057Jan 3057
A side-effect of no longer being non-monogamous: PickinessIt’s been over a year since my husband of 25 years officially left me for his other, younger, and very sexual partner. And what an effin’…Jan 441Jan 441
Why My Soon-to-Be Ex Embraced Non-Monogamy — And I Walked AwayI’ve been accused many times by readers of my posts that I pushed my husband into opening up our marriage. Despite my assurances that we…Dec 12, 202431Dec 12, 202431
Can I go back to being monogamous?My new boyfriend, Mark, whom I met when I was married and non-monogamous, recently asked me if we could explore a closed relationship.Nov 7, 202425Nov 7, 202425
Asking for a Friend: Are Single Dads Actually Invested in Dating?As a single mom navigating the dating scene, I’ve found that many single dads struggle to balance parenting and romance. Why is that?Oct 18, 202423Oct 18, 202423
From Friend to Predator?Navigating Very Unexpected Non-Monogamy Disclosures and Boundary ViolationsOct 3, 202413Oct 3, 202413
Changing a Partner Dynamic in Non-MonogamyCan a Non-Primary Partner Become a Primary Partner?Aug 11, 202418Aug 11, 202418
Facing Infidelity: My Struggle for Empathy as a Non-Monogamous WomanMy husband of 2O + years has left me for another woman. Cue the outrage.Jul 16, 202440Jul 16, 202440
So What if Non-Monogamy is a Couple’s Attempt to Keep Their Relationship Afloat?When my long-term marriage, which started monogamous and ended non-monogamous, fell apart, I was pretty surprised to hear so many people…Jun 23, 202414Jun 23, 202414