When you’re non-monogamous, it’s hard to get everything right. Despite best intentions, the intricate web of emotions, feelings, lust and desire among multiple people sometimes gets a bit complicated. It sometimes gets very complicated. Recently, if you ask me, my husband has majorly screwed things up. He’s fallen in love…

For those of you who have been following my last few posts, you know that my relationship with my husband is tenuously holding on by a very thin thread. Four years into our non-monogamous exploration, his new, very serious, relationship with an HSV2+ partner has caused our relationship to implode. …

This question has been keeping me up at night: Is my husband’s partner, my metamour, an innocent bystander or partly responsible for the shit-show that my relationship with my husband has become? First and foremost, let me be clear and unequivocal. I refuse to fall into the trap of believing…

Over the last month, I have really wanted to provide another update on what’s happened between me and my husband because I know that I left you all kind of hanging at the end of my last blog post…. …

I know it’s been a hot minute since I last wrote about a difficult period in my non-monogamous marriage. Sorry to have kept you hanging. It’s just…. well, it’s been a shitty, awful last few months and I didn’t have the mental space to write about it. But here’s a…

Navigating my comfort zones in the lifestyle — When I first dipped my feet into the world of swinging, I encountered an unexpected challenge that left me wondering if I had a place in the community. As I explored various online platforms, like FetLife, I couldn’t help but notice that they seemed to cater to individuals who were…

I recently wrote a blog post about how our experiences with non-monogamy are not always the same. Sometimes my husband is going through a fun and exciting period while I am going through a shitty period. The Instagram post I shared was this: “When one person is having a better…

It seems like such a simple concept, but for some reason, it’s a difficult one for some people to grasp. As a non-monogamous woman who’s been on her fair share of dates, I can tell you that many people wrongly assume that non-monogamous individuals are only interested in casual sex. …

Four years ago my husband and I opened up our relationship not knowing that we were majorly, and I mean majorly, shaking things up. In those four years, we have learned an almost entirely new way to define and live out our relationship. Although I sometimes think we are hitting…