PinnedThe Beginning of Opening Up — From Monogamy to Non MonogamyAbout two years ago, after almost 20 years of marriage, I wrote my first online dating profile.Sep 30, 2021A response icon15Sep 30, 2021A response icon15
New relationship, same old flawed me?Grappling with who I am after being told I wasn’t good enoughMay 25A response icon9May 25A response icon9
Why My Non-Monogamous Marriage Ended: The Truth About Communication, Blame, and Emotional…Navigating the Aftermath of a Relationship Built on SilenceApr 9A response icon18Apr 9A response icon18
If I could have a do-over, would I still consider non-monogamy?Sometimes, I imagine what would have happened if we had done non-monogamy differently somehow.Mar 8A response icon21Mar 8A response icon21
The Temptation of Stealing a Gem of a Man from a Married WomanI once knew a man who was the full package on a dating app. Educated, financially secure, homeowner with a vacation property, great job…Jan 30A response icon81Jan 30A response icon81
A side-effect of no longer being non-monogamous: PickinessIt’s been over a year since my husband of 25 years officially left me for his other, younger, and very sexual partner. And what an effin’…Jan 4A response icon46Jan 4A response icon46
Why My Soon-to-Be Ex Embraced Non-Monogamy — And I Walked AwayI’ve been accused many times by readers of my posts that I pushed my husband into opening up our marriage. Despite my assurances that we…Dec 12, 2024A response icon33Dec 12, 2024A response icon33
Can I go back to being monogamous?My new boyfriend, Mark, whom I met when I was married and non-monogamous, recently asked me if we could explore a closed relationship.Nov 7, 2024A response icon27Nov 7, 2024A response icon27
Asking for a Friend: Are Single Dads Actually Invested in Dating?As a single mom navigating the dating scene, I’ve found that many single dads struggle to balance parenting and romance. Why is that?Oct 18, 2024A response icon23Oct 18, 2024A response icon23
From Friend to Predator?Navigating Very Unexpected Non-Monogamy Disclosures and Boundary ViolationsOct 3, 2024A response icon13Oct 3, 2024A response icon13