PinnedThe Beginning of Opening Up — From Monogamy to Non MonogamyAbout two years ago, after almost 20 years of marriage, I wrote my first online dating profile.Sep 30, 202115Sep 30, 202115
Why My Non-Monogamous Marriage Ended: The Truth About Communication, Blame, and Emotional…Navigating the Aftermath of a Relationship Built on SilenceApr 99Apr 99
If I could have a do-over, would I still consider non-monogamy?Sometimes, I imagine what would have happened if we had done non-monogamy differently somehow.Mar 818Mar 818
The Temptation of Stealing a Gem of a Man from a Married WomanI once knew a man who was the full package on a dating app. Educated, financially secure, homeowner with a vacation property, great job…Jan 3075Jan 3075
A side-effect of no longer being non-monogamous: PickinessIt’s been over a year since my husband of 25 years officially left me for his other, younger, and very sexual partner. And what an effin’…Jan 444Jan 444
Why My Soon-to-Be Ex Embraced Non-Monogamy — And I Walked AwayI’ve been accused many times by readers of my posts that I pushed my husband into opening up our marriage. Despite my assurances that we…Dec 12, 202432Dec 12, 202432
Can I go back to being monogamous?My new boyfriend, Mark, whom I met when I was married and non-monogamous, recently asked me if we could explore a closed relationship.Nov 7, 202426Nov 7, 202426
Asking for a Friend: Are Single Dads Actually Invested in Dating?As a single mom navigating the dating scene, I’ve found that many single dads struggle to balance parenting and romance. Why is that?Oct 18, 202423Oct 18, 202423
From Friend to Predator?Navigating Very Unexpected Non-Monogamy Disclosures and Boundary ViolationsOct 3, 202413Oct 3, 202413
Changing a Partner Dynamic in Non-MonogamyCan a Non-Primary Partner Become a Primary Partner?Aug 11, 202418Aug 11, 202418