A look back on four years of non-monogamy: Is it obvious where things went wrong?
7 min readDec 31, 2023
I’ve been going back and re-reading all my older posts, especially the ones in which I describe the early days of how we ended up opening up. I am looking to refresh my memory on how we decided to open up, who wanted what, and who initiated it. I am also trying to make sense of how we ended up here.