Are you non monogamous because you’re vain?
5 min readApr 8, 2023
When I wrote my first Tinder profile and included details on being a 40+ year old non monogamous, married mother-of-three, and accompanied it with a blurry picture of the back of my head, I didn’t really expect that a lot of men would be swiping right on me. But I was wrong. They came in droves. Within days I had a little icon at the top of my Tinder page indicating that 99+ men had right-swiped me.