Are you non monogamous because you’re vain?

Liz Sinclair
5 min readApr 8, 2023
Photo by tabitha turner on Unsplash

When I wrote my first Tinder profile and included details on being a 40+ year old non monogamous, married mother-of-three, and accompanied it with a blurry picture of the back of my head, I didn’t really expect that a lot of men would be swiping right on me. But I was wrong. They came in droves. Within days I had a little icon at the top of my Tinder page indicating that 99+ men had right-swiped me.

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Liz Sinclair

Ordinary, middle-aged, university educated, working mother of three in a long-term loving marriage. Oh, and also non monogamous.