Is non monogamy just shopping for a new relationship from the safety of an established one?

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A recent comment on one of my blogs started with “This is going to sound cruel but….”. After reading my post, the commenter was wondering about my motivation for being non monogamous. They asked if I was actually looking for a new relationship through my non monogamous exploration to get out of my existing marriage. As they put it, was…