Reflections on heartbreak: Navigating breakups and embracing growth in non-monogamy

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I have recently been staring down the barrel of a major breakup with my husband after our non-monogamous arrangement blew up. It’s been a painful few months and I have been wallowing in some pretty major self-pity. By chance, I found a draft blog I’d written a couple of years ago about how I felt when one of my boyfriends broke up with me. The pain…